The Royal Exit Plan: The Power of Writing A Will.

My beloved Father passed 6 years ago a week short of his 78th birthday.(May the Lord welcome him in his eternal home. Amen). Today, my siblings and I are left with over $100 K in debts, a wicked stepmother, banks, judges, and lawyers up the proverbial wazzoo, unpaid bills, abandoned fields, and cracked walls in need of repair. And, of course, the unanswered question: "Why dad? whyyyyyy?

It is with a heavy heart that I share this wisdom—so that your royal family won’t resent your royal legacy after you've transitioned.

You're the king of your domain, ruler of your proverbial castle, and the big Kahuna of your household. You've conquered work, family, and perhaps even that suspicious pile of leaves on the front lawn. But there’s one final task every king must face: writing a will. While most would rather face a dragon than confront mortality, it's time to knight up and handle your business.

1. Be the King Who Plans

Every wise ruler values a strong exit strategy. Leaving your fate (and your family’s) to chance is like leaving your crown in the hands of the jester. Write your will, set the rules, and call the shots from beyond the grave. That’s next-level power!

2. Avoid Family Feuds (aka The Game of Thrones Effect)

Think of a will as the ironclad treaty preventing your family from descending into a medieval-style power struggle. Without a will, Uncle Gary might fight tooth and nail for your mint-condition vinyls, while cousin Ahmed claims the recliner throne. Spare them the drama—your kingdom has seen enough.

3. Appoint Your Heirs Wisely

Here's your chance to make legendary decisions:

  • Leave your fortune to your pet cat.
  • Bequeath your recliner to whoever impresses you most.
  • Create a scavenger hunt for hidden treasures. This one is my favorite by far.

A king’s legacy can be fun!

4. Be Clear About the Castle and Gold

Leave no stone unturned. Spell out exactly who gets what—especially for the big items like property, cash, and prized possessions. Avoid epic quests over your treasures. If Aunt Gertrude shouldn't touch the royal couch, say so explicitly.

5. Leave a Few Words of Wisdom

This is your final decree—your "passing the scepter" moment. Share a life lesson, a cheeky joke, or a reminder to buy more toilet paper than they think necessary. Whatever it is, make it memorable—a king’s words should echo through time.

6. Rest Easy, Your Majesty

By writing a will, you provide your family with peace of mind and a smooth transition of power. A real king leaves clarity, a solid plan, and perhaps a bit more laundry for the kingdom to handle.

So, grab a quill, dear king, and draft that legendary decree—the kingdom depends on it!

Stay Royal, Stay Regal and May Your Reign Last a Thousand Years,

Omar Sanda

Resources for Writing a Will

General Resources (Worldwide)

  • Farewill: UK-based, offers online will-writing services with international guidance, estate planning tips, and end-of-life advice.

  • UNICEF: Legacy Giving Guide: Resources on incorporating charitable giving into your will, globally applicable.

  • Legal Zoom: U.S.-based, provides insights on will-writing and estate planning adaptable to various countries.

  • International Will Registry (UINL): Global database from the International Union of Notaries to ensure wills are recognized internationally.

Europe

North America

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